Warning: This one's kinda longwinded.
Andrew has been really taken care of by his work, even to the point that they have asked him where in England he would like to see and then have been sending him to some places based on that. So this week he was sent North East, up towards Newcastle and a little town called Durham...as I am not working yet, I was able to go with him for the week and then we both stayed on for the weekend to have a look around...
So, after 5 hours of driving through the countryside and witnessing one of the most beautiful sunsets I have ever seen, stunning in fact....we arrived in Durham.
Durham is an adorable little town of sloping cobblestone paths and narrow alley ways and streets, filled with markets and boutique gift shops peering out of histoical medieval and romanesque buildings. It's main claims to fame are its 11th century Norman Cathedral, which sits high and beautiful on a hill, shadowing every corner of the town and a huge castle that houses a university, giving the place a quirky mixture of student culture and of what I've always pictured traditional England would be like...It's tucked nicely amongst forest covered hills and on the banks of a river with an old stone bridge connecting both sides..on the outskirts lay rolling green valleys and pastures...a really quaint little area. I really liked it here...(the local residents, I'm not so sure though as we passed a suburb called "Pity Me" No word of a lie. haha)
After a couple of days there we then headed on to Newcastle where we spent the weekend. Newcastle was pretty interesting. Originally it was England's northern fortress to defend itself from the Scots in the 13th century, then years later it was a major port and coal mining area, similar to Newcastle at home in Oz I suppose, but it suffered a pretty harsh decline sometime in the past and so these days it's all about culture and arts and restaurants and nightlife.
Apart from its obvious medieval and roman historical setting, it seems it's a place where people go to have fun, and have fun the way they want too, it's vibe is unique, it's one of resilience and almost a little bit mischievous. The people here are lovely and although they seem so traditionally British (with an adorable mixed accent of England and Scotland) they also seem so different and independent from people I've met in other parts of the country...
But it's not all about the city. Newcastles surrounding areas are also steeped in some of Englands richest history..and this is where I begin to get lost and vague and distracted whilst Andrew tries to contain his excitement.
Here's the thing about my Andrew. He is a bit of a self confessed nerd. Which is not a bad thing. It's a GREAT thing and one of the many aspects about him that I love. Whilst I am quite happy to sit on a grassy knoll in a park somewhere and watch people all day, I love the culture and the people and the vibe of a place, Andrew LOVES to learn about the places we are in, about the history, and the buildings and the way they came to be...this is why we work so well together...I can sit and make some comment on the culture and he can then explain to me where that culture came from. It's great. But one thing I find super strange is his obsession with plaques! Andrew will read EVERY plaque we pass..right down to the ones on park benches, dedicating the seat and its opposite garden bed to the dude who planted the first lavender seed there...Don't get me wrong. I love history too, well, I like it...some of it, but really? is it necessary to read every single plaque? haha. I see an object that I like the look of and then I will read the relevant plaque that goes with it, Andrew on the other hand will read the plaque and then decide if he likes the look of the relevant object..which is probably why he is so super smart and knows so much stuff...and it's also probably why I'm not and I don't haha...But truly, as much as I try to seem enthused for Andrews sake, I am not really all that interested in all the finer details of which knife and fork and cup and saucer was the preffered choice of Lord Armstrong of Bamburgh Castle (which we went to on the weekend) unless it's got a pretty pattern and might inspire a fun new table setting for my next dinner party...so when I have to sit inside the dark, cold hallways of a damp, musty castle for hours on end whilst Andrew reads about all these things, my love for history and castles and Lords and Ladies quickly disipates...
So...as you can gather from the above, along with some other various ruins and historical sites, we looked at castles on the weekend. One of which, and the most amazing, was Bamburgh Castle..and here is the little bit of history I picked up and really do appreciate...
Basically from what I remember, after original foundational parts of it belonged to some other dude some time long ago, it then became the property of one of the Henry's (second I think)...it was a target of the invading Scots and in the 1400's sometime it got damaged in the War of the Roses with canons and stuff...then a few various people took on restoring it until eventually along came Lord Armstrong (an inventor) with his preferred choice of dinnerware, who bought it for 60,000 pounds and finished its restoration...
And YES, it truly is an amazing and beautiful piece of history, resting on a green headland on the Northumberland coastline, a beautiful stretch of white sand beaches, scattered with colourful little fishing villages overlooking mysterious clusters of islands out to sea...for these things I appreciate the experience in having been there to see it and it's being surrounded by THESE things that stir my imagination and interest about Lord Armstrong...what might he have thought about when he looked out to sea from his castle towers, when his eyes were looking at the same view mine were but years before...so, what are my thoughts? well they're not historical facts, they're not real smart, they're maybe even a little bit ignorant, and they sure as heck aren't going to end up on a plaque...but it's in them that I find my real appreciation...and in the meantime, jokes aside, I will take in the views and patiently wait for my love, while he finds his...